Wladimir Klitschko Talks About Hayden Panettieres Passing with a Final Message

The unexpected passing of Hayden Panettiere has left her loved ones and fans seeking answers, prompting her daughter’s father to finally speak out.

Wladimir Klitschko, the heavyweight boxing champion, released a deeply personal statement following Hayden’s death, but it paints only part of a troubling picture that is emerging regarding her last months.

Hayden passed away on August 16, 2026, at the age of 36 after someone contacted 911 to report an unresponsive woman at Judson Mill Lofts in Greenville, South Carolina.

Audio from the 911 dispatch, acquired by the Daily Mail, reveals the call was placed around 1:51 p.m. Initially, a female dispatcher described Hayden as experiencing a "cardiac arrest," while shortly after, a male dispatcher mentioned a suspected overdose.

Hayden Panettiere attended an Emmy nominees event in West Hollywood in September 2022. In later interviews, she spoke openly about the personal struggles she faced away from the spotlight.
Hayden Panettiere attended an Emmy nominees event in West Hollywood in September 2022. In later interviews, she spoke openly about the personal struggles she faced away from the spotlight.

Paramedics and officers performed chest compressions in their attempt to save her, but Hayden was pronounced dead at approximately 2:32 p.m., over 40 minutes after the call.

On Monday, a spokesperson from the Greenville Police Department informed the Daily Mail that police, along with EMS personnel, responded to a report of an unresponsive female at 701 Easley Bridge Road, Judson Mill Lofts.

"Upon their arrival, medical aid was given; however, the individual, identified as Hayden Panettiere, was declared dead at the scene," the spokesperson stated.

The police confirmed that the case is still under investigation by the Greenville County Coroner’s Office, and initial findings did not suggest foul play or any suspicious factors.

An acquaintance of Hayden made the 911 call, but further information has not been disclosed. Judson Mill Lofts, a converted textile mill established in 1912, includes studio and three-bedroom apartments, leasing for $1,295 to $3,485 monthly. The cause of Hayden’s death has yet to be identified.

Hayden Panettiere attends an event in 2022, years before her sudden death at 36. Her death was later reported to be under investigation, with police saying there were no initial signs of foul play or suspicious circumstances.
Hayden Panettiere attends an event in 2022, years before her sudden death at 36. Her death was later reported to be under investigation, with police saying there were no initial signs of foul play or suspicious circumstances.

In the days leading up to Hayden’s death, Wladimir’s public remarks gained a haunting new context. Before sharing his heartfelt tribute to her, he had posted a brief message about resilience that now resonates with a different meaning.

On August 18, Wladimir posted on X about resilience, defining it as the inner strength to keep rising and not surrendering after facing life’s toughest challenges.

Just two days after Hayden’s passing, Wladimir publicly expressed his sorrow for the first time in an Instagram post, which also mentioned their shared daughter.

Wladimir Breaks His Silence Following Hayden’s Death

"Our family is experiencing a period of immense shock and sorrow," Wladimir stated. "The news of Hayden’s tragic death has left me heartbroken. She departed this world far too soon." } , {

Although they were no longer a couple, Wladimir emphasized that Hayden held a significant place in his life. "Hayden was, despite our separation, a crucial part of my life and the mother of our daughter, Kaya," he expressed. He also reflected on her career and the pressures she faced growing up in the entertainment sector.

"She achieved remarkable success through her immense talent, while also confronting the darker aspects of a demanding industry. The moments we shared and her role in our lives will never fade away."

Wladimir Klitschko and Hayden Panettiere attend an event together in 2011, during their relationship years before welcoming their daughter, Kaya. The couple later remained close as co-parents, with Wladimir remembering Hayden as an important part of his life and the mother of their daughter.
Wladimir Klitschko and Hayden Panettiere attend an event together in 2011, during their relationship years before welcoming their daughter, Kaya. The couple later remained close as co-parents, with Wladimir remembering Hayden as an important part of his life and the mother of their daughter.

Wladimir then focused on their daughter, Kaya Evdokia Klitschko, pledging that Hayden’s memory will be a part of her life. "To our daughter Kaya, I will always speak of her mother respectfully and ensure she remembers who she was."

He requested the public to respect their family’s privacy during this difficult time and expressed gratitude to those who reached out with condolences. Wladimir concluded his message to Hayden with heartfelt words.

"Rest peacefully, Hayden. May you find eternal tranquility. #WeLoveYouHayden."

While Wladimir’s homage illuminated the family’s sorrow, new revelations from the apartment where Hayden passed have raised more questions about her final moments.

A Disturbing Discovery Found on the Mattress

According to a report by TMZ, Narcan was discovered in the apartment where Hayden died. The device used to administer the medication was reportedly located on a mattress.

Narcan, known generically as naloxone, is a drug utilized to swiftly reverse an opioid overdose. The National Institute on Drug Abuse clarifies that naloxone binds to opioid receptors and can restore normal breathing when someone’s respiration slows or ceases due to an opioid overdose.

However, the presence of the medication alone does not clarify who it was meant for. TMZ reported that two ambulances were dispatched to the apartment, indicating that potentially two individuals were in distress. Consequently, it remains unclear if Hayden was the one who received the Narcan.

Epinephrine was also administered, as reported by TMZ. This medication is often used during resuscitation attempts when a person is experiencing cardiac arrest. The official NARCAN information states that this nasal spray is designed to quickly address a life-threatening opioid emergency, even in instances where opioids are not ultimately involved.

This distinction remains important as authorities continue to investigate what transpired. The mere presence of Narcan does not, by itself, determine the cause of Hayden’s death.

Additionally, there was another alarming aspect to this matter—Hayden’s physical condition had become increasingly difficult to conceal in the months preceding her death.

Hayden Experienced Increasing Mobility Issues in Her Final Months

In March, Hayden was seen at LAX utilizing crutches while with Brian Hickerson. When asked about the crutches, she addressed her situation in footage acquired by the Daily Mail, stating that she was dealing with "some pinched nerves in my lower back."

She attempted to reassure those around her, expressing she was "on the mend," smiling and giving a thumbs-up before getting into a black SUV.

However, those close to her indicated the issue was more severe than her brief public explanation implied. Erick Orellana, Hayden’s hairdresser and friend, told Page Six that she had been suffering from intense pain earlier that year.

"I know she experienced significant pain earlier this year with her back," Erick stated. He described the discomfort as "really severe" and noted its impact on her mobility.

Hayden Panettiere and Brian Hickerson are seen together in 2023. Their relationship later became the subject of renewed attention following reports that the pair had remained romantically involved in private.
Hayden Panettiere and Brian Hickerson are seen together in 2023. Their relationship later became the subject of renewed attention following reports that the pair had remained romantically involved in private.

"At one point, it was even difficult for her to move her legs," Erick shared. A separate source informed Page Six that Hayden sometimes appeared fatigued and dealt with anxiety. "Earlier this year, she did seem a little tired at times. But she was a night owl, and… she had a lot on her plate," the source noted.

The insider also reported that Hayden "suffered from anxiety at times" and would "occasionally take medication for that."

"And occasionally that could impact her speech," the source elaborated. Nonetheless, Erick believed Hayden appeared to be showing signs of improvement. Yet, footage from May now carries a more troubling significance in light of her death.

Hayden Panettiere attends an event in 2022. Some years after friends said she experienced severe health issues that affected her mobility.
Hayden Panettiere attends an event in 2022. Some years after friends said she experienced severe health issues that affected her mobility.

A May Video Captured Hayden Struggling to Walk

One of the last public videos of Hayden was filmed in May during her promotional tour for her memoir, This Is Me: A Reckoning. The footage, shared by Elder Ordonez on Instagram, displayed Hayden walking while attending promotional events.

After her passing, the video was reposted with a message expressing sorrow over the footage and offering prayers for her family. Viewers quickly noticed how unsteady Hayden appeared on her feet.

One commenter noted, "She looked a bit unsteady on her feet🥺♥️." Another remarked, "He walked strangely during that moment, it seemed like something was wrong. 😢 Rip 🕊️" A third user questioned, "Her walk seemed to suggest pain, or am I imagining things?"

Additional comments noted, "Did anyone else catch how she walked?" One more user observed, "Something was definitely off with her feet 😢" The Daily Mail also reported that footage from May appeared to show Hayden struggling to walk in New York, with her right leg evidently giving her trouble.

Later that day, she supposedly relied on an assistant to support her as she arrived at CBS Studios, holding onto the woman’s hand tightly while smiling for those present. Onlookers noted that her physical issues were not merely imagined.

Hayden had publicly discussed what she characterized as nerve damage in her lower back during a May interview with Women’s Health. "I literally woke up feeling nothing but pins and needles from my waist down," she explained. "I couldn’t bend my toes or lift my foot at all. No one could provide a clear answer."

She shared that the uncertainty became alarming enough that she questioned whether her condition could be permanent. "It felt like that for so long that I was sitting there thinking, ‘Oh my gosh, am I going to be paralyzed for the rest of my… life?’"

"It’s the most frightening thing I’ve ever experienced physically, without a doubt." None of the reported health concerns have been confirmed as related to Hayden’s death.

Additionally, another complex aspect of her last months was not fully known to the public at the time. Over the years, Hayden and Brian’s relationship reportedly saw multiple breakups and reconciliations.

Hayden and Brian Were Allegedly Still Together Secretly

However, according to TMZ, the public portrayal of their relationship was incomplete. A source close to Brian claimed that the couple had not split as frequently as the public believed and were indeed together while Hayden was promoting her memoir in the months leading up to her death.

They supposedly kept their relationship under wraps to protect her career. Hayden’s team allegedly believed Brian was "bad for business" while she was promoting This Is Me: A Reckoning. TMZ noted that their complicated past could potentially harm book sales.

Thus, while Hayden and Brian were reportedly still romantically linked, they maintained a low profile regarding their relationship. The secrecy went beyond simply avoiding public appearances together.

Hayden Panettiere and Brian Hickerson are pictured together in 2023, as reports later revealed that the couple's relationship may have continued privately despite public reports of repeated breakups.
Hayden Panettiere and Brian Hickerson are pictured together in 2023, as reports later revealed that the couple’s relationship may have continued privately despite public reports of repeated breakups.

TMZ reported that the couple remained in regular contact during Hayden’s promotional events, and those in their inner circle supposedly knew they were still together. During a May appearance, Hayden was asked about her relationship with Brian and reportedly laughed off the idea of marrying him.

Brian Encountered a Legal Setback Just Days Before Hayden Passed

Three days before Hayden’s death, Brian faced another legal disappointment. TMZ reported that a judge denied his request to reduce his past felony domestic violence convictions to misdemeanors and to expunge them.

Hayden Panettiere and Brian Hickerson hold hands while walking together in 2019, accompanied by another woman. The couple's relationship later became complicated by Hickerson's legal troubles, with reports revealing they continued communicating despite periods when their romance appeared to have ended publicly.
Hayden Panettiere and Brian Hickerson hold hands while walking together in 2019, accompanied by another woman. The couple’s relationship later became complicated by Hickerson’s legal troubles, with reports revealing they continued communicating despite periods when their romance appeared to have ended publicly.

The ruling was made on August 13, just days before Hayden died. In April 2021, Brian pled no contest to two felony counts related to domestic violence incidents involving Hayden that occurred between May 2019 and January 2020.

Initially, he faced a total of eight criminal charges. Page Six stated that Brian’s petition claimed he had completed all terms of his probation.

He had previously served 45 days in county jail, four years of formal probation, 52 mandated domestic violence classes, and a five-year restraining order. Ultimately, he spent 33 days in jail after receiving credit for time already served.

The narrative surrounding Hayden Panettiere’s final months is intertwined with a deeply personal family story involving Kaya, the daughter she shared with Wladimir.

Hayden Panettiere and Brian Hickerson are seen together in Los Angeles in 2019, two years before his domestic violence case resulted in a 45-day jail sentence. Their turbulent relationship later became part of Hayden’s story of reclaiming her voice and healing from abuse.
Hayden Panettiere and Brian Hickerson are seen together in Los Angeles in 2019, two years before his domestic violence case resulted in a 45-day jail sentence. Their turbulent relationship later became part of Hayden’s story of reclaiming her voice and healing from abuse.

For years, Hayden experienced others telling the story of why her daughter, Kaya, is thousands of miles away. However, the late actress increasingly filled in the gaps herself, revealing a situation far more complex than merely "giving up" her child.

From the postpartum challenges that emerged after Kaya’s birth to the heartbreaking custody documents Hayden eventually signed, motherhood did not unfold as the "Nashville" star had once envisioned.

Today, her daughter is thriving and speaks several languages. She shares a remarkable bond with her mother and maintains a strong relationship with her father. Moreover, there’s a painful misconception that Hayden earnestly hopes Kaya never adopts from her story.

Kaya’s Arrival Marked Hayden Panettiere’s Transition to Motherhood

Kaya was born on December 9, 2014, in Hawaii, weighing 7 lbs., 14 oz., and measuring 20 inches long.

At the time of her birth, the new parents exclaimed, "We are over the moon and madly in love!" Hayden had kept her pregnancy largely private, but her baby bump eventually became noticeable. At the 2014 Emmys, she accidentally revealed that they were expecting a girl while discussing baby preparations.

Panettiere welcomed daughter Kaya in December 2014 after previously saying she felt empowered by the idea of raising a strong woman. Years later, she would reveal how drastically her experience of motherhood diverged from those early expectations.
Panettiere welcomed daughter Kaya in December 2014 after previously saying she felt empowered by the idea of raising a strong woman. Years later, she would reveal how drastically her experience of motherhood diverged from those early expectations.

"I’m excited to be having a girl first because I feel I have a lot to share in raising a strong woman," she told Hello! Magazine while discussing her pregnancy and upcoming motherhood. "I feel empowered myself, and I believe my daughter will feel the same way," she added.

At that time, Hayden was engaged to Wladimir, having announced their engagement in 2013, more than a year prior to Kaya’s arrival. The early days of motherhood came with the expected exhaustion and some surprises.

Hayden later joked about finally getting her first uninterrupted sleep, crediting it to Wladimir’s mother, who was eager to take care of the newborn overnight.

Panettiere shares Kaya with former fiancé Wladimir Klitschko, who became the girl's primary caregiver while the actress sought help for her health and addiction struggles. Despite their split, Panettiere says she and Klitschko remained close and committed to speaking positively about each other to their daughter.
Panettiere shares Kaya with former fiancé Wladimir Klitschko, who became the girl’s primary caregiver while the actress sought help for her health and addiction struggles. Despite their split, Panettiere says she and Klitschko remained close and committed to speaking positively about each other to their daughter.

"Wlad’s mom was eager to take the baby for a night," Hayden reminisced in a People feature about their new family. "She looked like she hadn’t rested much, but I felt well-rested!"

She described the experience of becoming a parent as "surreal and out of body," noting she and Wladimir were in the process of getting to know the little person who had spent months inside her. Physically, however, recovery from childbirth proved challenging.

Panettiere has said she and Klitschko were still "best friends" and regularly communicated with Kaya together. Their cooperative relationship had helped the actress maintain what she called an "incredible" bond with her daughter across continents.
Panettiere has said she and Klitschko were still "best friends" and regularly communicated with Kaya together. Their cooperative relationship had helped the actress maintain what she called an "incredible" bond with her daughter across continents.

"I’m limping around," Hayden mentioned at the time, explaining that she was still trying to understand how pregnancy had transformed her body and which changes might be transient or permanent. She humorously remarked that she felt "like an 80-year-old woman attempting to navigate stairs."

Kaya was described by her mother as a sweet and easy baby, albeit one with what Hayden called an "insatiable appetite." Yet behind those tender initial moments, Hayden would later confront struggles she hadn’t anticipated.

Kaya's arrival initially brought Panettiere the excitement of first-time motherhood, but she later said she was unprepared for the postpartum depression that followed. She had spoken openly about how isolated and confused she felt during that period.
Kaya’s arrival initially brought Panettiere the excitement of first-time motherhood, but she later said she was unprepared for the postpartum depression that followed. She had spoken openly about how isolated and confused she felt during that period.

Years later, Hayden opened up about suffering from postpartum depression following Kaya’s birth. She shared that part of the distressing experience was her lack of awareness about postpartum depression and the need to monitor for it.

"I wish I had known about postpartum depression. I wish I had known to be aware of it," she shared with E! News while reflecting on her journey in 2023. Hayden mentioned turning to alcohol in hopes of finding relief.

She recalled her thoughts at the time, believing, "Fireball will fix this — duh!" only to realize that any temporary comfort ultimately exacerbated her situation. The isolation was another painful aspect; since she was unaware of her condition, she felt she should somehow be able to overcome it independently.

Panettiere's struggles after becoming a mother eventually included battles with alcohol and opioids, which she had discussed candidly in interviews. She later said getting healthy meant confronting the painful reality that Kaya had already built a stable life in Europe.
Panettiere’s struggles after becoming a mother eventually included battles with alcohol and opioids, which she had discussed candidly in interviews. She later said getting healthy meant confronting the painful reality that Kaya had already built a stable life in Europe.

Hayden had addressed her struggle with postpartum depression publicly in the past, but she later connected those emotional challenges to a broader battle. She openly discussed her issues with opioids and alcohol, which contributed to the circumstances surrounding Kaya eventually living with her father.

The actress expressed a desire for new mothers to recognize that an instantaneous, overwhelming bond is not the only potential reaction to childbirth. She wished for someone to explain that it was completely normal to meet a newborn and initially perceive a "crazy little creation" whom a parent would come to love more deeply over time.

Panettiere had pushed back strongly against the idea that she simply "gave up" her daughter, having called the custody decision one of the most painful experiences of her life. She had said she ultimately accepted the arrangement because she believed disrupting Kaya's established life would have been selfish.
Panettiere had pushed back strongly against the idea that she simply "gave up" her daughter, having called the custody decision one of the most painful experiences of her life. She had said she ultimately accepted the arrangement because she believed disrupting Kaya’s established life would have been selfish.

According to the Mayo Clinic’s information on postpartum depression referenced in E!’s report, symptoms might include intense mood fluctuations and difficulties in bonding with a newborn. For Hayden, what followed was not just a private struggle; it ultimately altered the day-to-day structure of her daughter’s upbringing.

Kaya Moved to Live with Her Father

When Kaya was still very young, she began living with Wladimir in Ukraine during Hayden’s struggles. The circumstances surrounding that arrangement have become one of the most emotionally charged and misunderstood aspects of the actress’s narrative.

During a September 2022 appearance on "Red Table Talk," Hayden was asked about the notion that she and Wladimir had simply agreed it was best for Kaya to be with her father after their final split in 2018. Her response was striking.

Panettiere and former fiancé Wladimir Klitschko welcomed their only child, Kaya, in December 2014. Years later, the actress said the painful changes to their family were never as simple as her choosing to walk away from motherhood.
Panettiere and former fiancé Wladimir Klitschko welcomed their only child, Kaya, in December 2014. Years later, the actress said the painful changes to their family were never as simple as her choosing to walk away from motherhood.

"Initially, it wasn’t a discussion," she stated during the "Red Table Talk" conversation regarding relinquishing custody. Hayden explained that had Wladimir approached her with the idea of Kaya staying with him temporarily due to her challenges, she might have understood.

"Okay, that makes sense. I’ll come visit and things like that," she believed such a conversation would have unfolded. Instead, Hayden expressed that the way things turned out was "very upsetting." Then came the legal papers.

"Signing those documents was the worst experience," Hayden recalled. "It was the most heartbreaking thing I’ve ever had to do in my life."

She clarified that the documents granted Wladimir full custody. At that point, Hayden indicated her intention to focus on her own recovery with hopes that the situation might change, allowing Kaya to return to her.

Kaya was nearly three when the arrangement changed, and Hayden initially believed her daughter was simply visiting her father in Ukraine. "It wasn’t entirely my decision," Hayden stated on "Red Table Talk," as recounted in People’s 2024 overview of Kaya’s life and her connection with her mother. "In fact, I wasn’t even aware it was happening until she was already there."

This detail sheds light on why Hayden has consistently fought against the narrative that she casually chose to distance herself from motherhood.

Hayden Later Expressed Feelings of Guilt

By May 2026, Hayden spoke even more candidly about what she felt during that period. During a panel related to her memoir, "This Is Me: A Reckoning," she described the immense guilt of realizing she was not in a position to parent Kaya as she wished.

The actress admitted she felt "guilt ridden" over being "completely incapable" of parenting her now-11-year-old daughter at that time, according to Page Six’s report on her emotional recollection.

She also recalled one remark that struck her deeply. "The worst thing anyone said to me is that it was a personal choice I was making," Hayden indicated. Her response made it clear how impossible that characterization felt to her.

"Who would choose to feel this way? How could anyone say that to me?" she questioned. Hayden described Kaya as a healthy, wonderful child who represented "everything to celebrate," making her inability to be the mother she wanted to be even more painful.

"And I’m completely unable to do it," she confessed. "I felt so guilty that I was incapable of being the mother I needed to be." Another moment etched in her memory was a time when she was at an airport and saw a magazine cover featuring her face with a headline questioning why she had given up her daughter.

"You might as well have taken a knife and stabbed me in the heart," she remembered. Hayden insisted that anyone who truly knew her would understand she would have done "absolutely anything" for Kaya. However, she argued that sometimes loving a child means accepting a decision that is not fulfilling for the parent.

Panettiere spoke candidly about postpartum depression following Kaya's birth and the addiction struggles that later followed. She said there were periods when she felt "completely incapable" of being the parent she desperately wanted to be.
Panettiere spoke candidly about postpartum depression following Kaya’s birth and the addiction struggles that later followed. She said there were periods when she felt "completely incapable" of being the parent she desperately wanted to be.

"Sometimes it means making choices that are not what you want as a mom, or what will make you feel good as a parent, but what is best for them," she explained. Even the actual signing of the custody papers remains a poignant memory.

Hayden shared that her father was with her when she signed the documentation, while other individuals unexpectedly appeared to witness the signing. She recalled sitting in a restaurant and clenching her teeth tightly to avoid breaking down in tears.

Then, she heard laughter and chatter from nearby diners. "I can’t believe you can watch someone undergoing one of the most painful experiences in the world and find it amusing," she thought.

The actress said signing over custody of Kaya was the "most heartbreaking thing" she had ever done. She later stressed that allowing her daughter to remain with Klitschko ultimately meant putting Kaya's stability ahead of what she herself wanted as a mother.
The actress said signing over custody of Kaya was the "most heartbreaking thing" she had ever done. She later stressed that allowing her daughter to remain with Klitschko ultimately meant putting Kaya’s stability ahead of what she herself wanted as a mother.

Afterward, Hayden said she locked herself in the restaurant bathroom to confront "the reality of the situation." Her memoir revisits experiences from that extremely challenging chapter of her life. However, Kaya’s story did not end with the custody papers; another consideration arose: her daughter had begun to build a life of her own.

By the Time Hayden Was Well, Kaya Had Established Her Own Life

In May 2026, Hayden provided one of her most extensive explanations regarding why Kaya stayed with her father in Ukraine, even after the actress regained her health. During an interview on Jay Shetty’s "On Purpose" podcast, she elaborated that Kaya had spent considerable time in Europe and was deeply rooted there.

She had connections, friends, extracurricular activities, and was absorbing the languages around her. In Hayden’s view, her daughter had cultivated "a beautiful life."

By the time she was healthy, Hayden noted, "I felt it would be unfair and selfish to pull her away from this life she had created." Today, Hayden’s daughter has grown up in a multilingual environment.

By the age of 9, her mother reported that Kaya could speak English, Russian, Ukrainian, and German, and was beginning to learn French. "She’s a genius!" the proud mother exclaimed in 2024.

Hayden also contrasted Kaya’s language experiences with those of children in the United States, arguing that American kids often begin learning additional languages later, when their brains are less adaptable.

"But when they’re babies and young, they absorb information like a sponge," she remarked. "You can teach them anything." Hayden joked that while Kaya may not appreciate her language skills yet, she assured her that one day she would.

Kaya’s interests extend beyond languages, as she is also fascinated by horses—an enthusiasm Hayden believes might be genetic. "I have horse riding in my blood," she remarked, noting that her great-uncle once won the Kentucky Derby. She humorously shared a glimpse of Kaya’s excitement.

Hayden received a video of Kaya watching "Racing Stripes," a film she apparently loves to rewatch. In the clip, Kaya was sitting on a toy hippo, pretending to race it with such enthusiasm that Hayden joked she feared for the toy’s stability.

The girl is also a skilled swimmer, sharing another quality that Hayden recognized in herself. "She’s just like me," the actress had previously stated. Hayden recalled spending ample time in her pool while pregnant with Kaya during her work on "Nashville," stating, "And she came out loving water."

By 2026, Hayden revealed that Kaya was not just fascinated by horses; she also rides them. Yet, perhaps the most surprising detail shared was how fondly Hayden spoke of her daughter’s emotional growth.

Hayden Had Shared That Her Daughter Is ‘Happy,’ ‘Solid,’ and Knows She Is Loved

At 11, Kaya lives what her mother described as an "incredible life." "She’s an incredible little girl," Hayden shared with Jay. The actress highlighted the support system in Kaya’s life. More importantly, she felt confident Kaya understood that she had two parents who love her.

Hayden believed in her heart that Kaya felt supported and insisted that their physical separation had not fractured their relationship. "I maintain an incredible relationship with her," the mother stated. Hayden made an effort to see Kaya as regularly as possible and spent ample time communicating with her via FaceTime.

Their conversations extended beyond brief check-ins. "We discuss really deep topics," Hayden revealed. She described their bond as "intense and incredible."

The actress emphasized her dedication to ensuring Kaya never interpreted her childhood circumstances as abandonment. "She in no way feels abandoned," Hayden assured. This was something she consciously aimed to communicate.

For Hayden, parenting Kaya from a distance meant trying to lead by example. She noted that her daughter was born to two public figures pursuing very different careers on separate continents, and Kaya seemed to enjoy witnessing both her parents achieve success. "She’s our biggest fan," Hayden shared.

The actress believed that observing her parents’ accomplishments might inspire Kaya to believe she could achieve whatever she sets her mind to. Additionally, Hayden saw something crucial in how Kaya carries herself.

She characterized her daughter as "good" and "solid," asserting that Kaya’s ability to love herself provides powerful affirmation that she feels cherished. Witnessing an 11-year-old already demonstrating self-love and love for others is something Hayden considers one of the greatest gifts a parent could wish for.

Panettiere and Klitschko became parents to Kaya in December 2014, more than a year after announcing their engagement. Their relationship later ended, but Panettiere said the two remained extremely close and worked together to make sure Kaya felt supported by both parents.
Panettiere and Klitschko became parents to Kaya in December 2014, more than a year after announcing their engagement. Their relationship later ended, but Panettiere said the two remained extremely close and worked together to make sure Kaya felt supported by both parents.

In her conversation with Jay, Hayden also sought to address one ongoing misunderstanding.

This narrative starkly contrasts with the portrayal suggested by years of headlines claiming Hayden "gave up" her daughter. She confronted that characterization directly during her May podcast. "A common misconception is that I simply abandoned my child," she stated. "That could not be further from the truth."

She hoped that her podcast discussion, along with the comprehensive account in her memoir, would finally provide the necessary context for others to understand how events unfolded, even if the outcome still brings her sorrow.

Jay referenced a passage from Hayden’s memoir about grieving for the mother she envisioned being. The actress admitted that grief had at times overwhelmed her. In the beginning, she stated, it was genuinely grief. Yet, as time passed, that emotion evolved.

Because of her bond with Kaya and how events ultimately transpired, Hayden explained that she reached a state where she could feel profound gratitude amidst the pain. She emphasized that Kaya has "an amazing father" and "an incredible family."

Despite the situation not aligning with her initial hopes for motherhood, she felt fortunate that Kaya is safe, well-balanced, and deeply connected to her. That bond was once a source of significant anxiety for her.

When Kaya moved away, Hayden dreaded that she might have to fight fiercely to maintain any relationship with her daughter. Instead, she later expressed that the outcome became "in many ways" a blessing. However, this doesn’t mean she didn’t long for more. "I always want her here," Hayden remarked. "I always miss her." "But that’s just not the way life is at this moment," she acknowledged.

Although Panettiere and Klitschko ultimately built separate lives, their daughter remained the strongest link between them. Panettiere said they were still "best friends" and had promised never to speak negatively about one another to Kaya.
Although Panettiere and Klitschko ultimately built separate lives, their daughter remained the strongest link between them. Panettiere said they were still "best friends" and had promised never to speak negatively about one another to Kaya.

Hayden also contemplated beyond Kaya’s childhood, believing her daughter would eventually become an adult with the autonomy to decide for herself where to live and how to shape her life, and she held faith in what the future might bring.

Hayden was confident that Kaya would come to her, and they would have developed an "incredible relationship and bond and friendship" that many parents never have with their adult children.

Kaya’s Parents Maintained a Close Relationship After Their Separation

One aspect that seemed to facilitate the unconventional arrangement was Hayden’s relationship with Wladimir. "Wlad and I are very close," she stated in 2026. Although they were no longer a couple, she emphasized that all three of them communicated regularly.

Sometimes this meant engaging in a three-way FaceTime call between Hayden, Kaya, and Wladimir, whom she described as "incredibly supportive." She noted that he has brought Kaya to the U.S. to spend time with Hayden’s family.

Kaya had the opportunity to know her great-grandparents before Hayden’s "grandpy" and "papa" passed away. "That was really significant to me," the actress explained. Kaya still has Hayden’s nana and grandmother in her life, and she even has a special nickname for one of them: "Super Nana."

Panettiere said she and Klitschko remained "best friends" after their romantic relationship ended and shared tremendous respect for one another. That bond helped them stay united in raising Kaya despite living on different continents.
Panettiere said she and Klitschko remained "best friends" after their romantic relationship ended and shared tremendous respect for one another. That bond helped them stay united in raising Kaya despite living on different continents.

Regarding Wladimir, the actress characterized their relationship as more than just cordial co-parenting. "Wlad and I are still best friends," she noted, believing that few people know her as well as he does.

She also emphasized that they continued to share immense love for one another, and crucially for Kaya, mutual respect. This respect informed a specific parenting guideline. Hayden reflected on how her own upbringing influenced a vital decision she and Wladimir made after their romantic relationship ended.

Having heard her mother speak negatively about her father throughout her childhood, Hayden noted, "It hurt to constantly hear someone you love disparaged." Therefore, she and Wladimir committed to never speak poorly of each other to Kaya.

Panettiere and Klitschko's relationship eventually changed, but their connection as Kaya's parents endured. She later said they remained close, respected one another deeply, and worked to keep their daughter's relationship with both parents strong.
Panettiere and Klitschko’s relationship eventually changed, but their connection as Kaya’s parents endured. She later said they remained close, respected one another deeply, and worked to keep their daughter’s relationship with both parents strong.

Hayden asserted that they both adhered to this promise, instead ensuring to speak positively about one another to their child. Additionally, she focused on ensuring that Kaya remains respectful and affectionate toward her father.

She made it clear how highly she regards Wladimir, calling him a "hero" and "one of the bravest individuals" she knows. According to her account, Kaya "loves both of us immensely."

This united approach matters because Hayden recognized that her daughter may eventually confront a less tidy version of their family history. In fact, some of that version is now included in Hayden’s memoir, which also touches on a crucial concern she has expressed.

One Thing Hayden Wanted to Prevent Kaya from Believing

Hayden published "This Is Me: A Reckoning" on May 19, 2026. The book delves into highly personal aspects of her life, including her early fame, romantic relationships, the loss of her younger brother Jansen, difficult Hollywood experiences, and the painful circumstances regarding Kaya living primarily with her father.

During an event in Los Angeles discussing the book, Hayden was asked about her hopes for the day Kaya herself might read it. "I don’t want her to ever read it and think any of it was her fault," Hayden stated, emphasizing her deep affection for her daughter.

Hayden acknowledged that the complex narrative presented in the book is "a lot" for an 11-year-old to process. Nevertheless, she was determined to keep protecting Kaya while she remains young.

Hayden further explained that she struggled with her mental health and substance abuse during that period, losing her sense of self. She also countered another misconception—the idea that she had always been compelled to seek treatment. Instead, she stated that she had actively sought help.

Hayden described herself as a "mother lion" willing to "burn the entire world" for her child. Yet, Wladimir believed it was best for Kaya to reside in Europe while Hayden underwent treatment for alcoholism and substance abuse. "That was incredibly challenging," the late mom admitted.

"The fact that my child wouldn’t be with me all day, every day is… indescribable." For Hayden, it wasn’t a single emotion but "multiple layers of feelings intertwined together."