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The actress and her husband, together for nearly 20 years, recently shared his thoughts on her bold choices in film and TV, acknowledging that these can be challenging in a long-term relationship.

Nicole Kidman’s upcoming film Babygirl features her in a provocative role opposite a much younger actor, portraying a character involved in a steamy, age-gap romance. The film’s explicit scenes have sparked intense discussions online, and even her husband has weighed in with his own reaction.

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban met in early 2005, and she felt he was “the one” within just a few months. They married in 2006 in a romantic ceremony in Australia.

Now married for 18 years, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban share two children and enjoy a stable family life. Despite their commitments at home, they both continue to take bold steps in their careers.

Grammy-winning singer Keith Urban remains a prominent figure in country music, while Nicole Kidman continues to make headlines with daring roles, often starring alongside much younger actors.

In 2021, Oscar-winner Nicole Kidman starred in A Family Affair, a romantic comedy that included a memorable, steamy scene with Zac Efron, now 37, whom many still associate with his role in High School Musical.

This light-hearted comedy role may seem surprising, but at 57, Nicole Kidman has made numerous bold choices throughout her career. She effortlessly transitions from intense, dramatic roles to more relaxed characters, showing her versatility in bringing compelling stories to life.

In August 2021, Nicole Kidman revealed that Keith Urban fully supports her choices as both an actor and producer, including scenes where she takes on more revealing roles.

“My husband is an artist, so he understands all of it, and he also does not get involved,” Nicole Kidman explained. This may have influenced her decision to star in the upcoming erotic thriller Babygirl, set to premiere later this year, where she plays a powerful CEO in a bold, intense role.

In Babygirl, Nicole Kidman’s character, a powerful CEO, risks her career and family by engaging in a romantic affair with her much younger intern, played by 28-year-old English actor Harris Dickinson.

LONDON, ENGLAND – OCTOBER 09: Harris Dickinson attends the “Blitz” World Premiere during the Opening Night Gala of the 68th BFI London Film Festival at The Royal Festival Hall on October 09, 2024 in London, England. (Photo by Mike Marsland/WireImage)

In a recent interview, Nicole Kidman revealed the intensity of filming Babygirl, sharing that the role was so “turning on” at times that she needed to take a step back from production to regain composure.

Working closely with Harris Dickinson and Antonio Banderas, 64, who plays her on-screen husband, Nicole Kidman described the experience of filming Babygirl as “almost like a burnout” due to the emotional intensity of the role.

Nicole Kidman added that the filming process involved “an enormous amount of sharing and trust, and then frustration,” recalling moments when she felt overwhelmed, saying, “It’s like, ‘Don’t touch me.'” Reflecting on the emotional toll, she even confessed, “I don’t care if I am never touched again in my life! I’m over it.”

Despite the intense and intimate nature of Nicole Kidman’s recent roles, Keith Urban, 57, remains supportive and unfazed. A source revealed that he’s come to view her work as a form of “art,” recognizing that “she is playing characters – she isn’t playing Nicole Kidman.”

The insider added that Keith Urban “isn’t wincing during these types of scenes” and maintains a respectful distance from his wife’s work. He focuses solely on her schedule to ensure they can coordinate family time with their children.

While Keith Urban supports Nicole Kidman’s artistic choices, the couple is mindful of what their daughters, Sunday Rose, 16, and Faith Margaret, nearly 14, are exposed to. They take care to ensure the content they encounter is age-appropriate.

HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA – APRIL 27: (L-R) Sunday Urban, Rose Urban, Nicole Kidman, Antonia Kidman, and Craig Marran attend the 49th AFI Life Achievement Award Gala Tribute celebrating Nicole Kidman at Dolby Theatre on April 27, 2024 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Matt Winkelmeyer/Getty Images)

An insider revealed, “Nicole is not ashamed in any way, but she doesn’t want them to see everything she does. To her kids, she is just mom.”

The source further noted that, just as the girls don’t attend all of Keith Urban’s concerts, Nicole Kidman feels relieved knowing they aren’t exposed to some of her more revealing work.

Some fans expressed strong reactions to Keith Urban’s explanation of his wife’s latest on-screen role. One user commented, “Keith has blinded his eye to what is right, justifying immoral behavior.”

Another person expressed discomfort with Nicole Kidman’s candidness about her role, questioning, “Honestly, this is horrible to hear. Why would she share this kind of inappropriate information with the world?” They called it “distasteful” and “revolting.”

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA – OCTOBER 23: Nicole Kidman arrives at the Los Angeles Premiere Of Paramount+ Original Series “Lioness” Season 2 at Linwood Dunn Theater on October 23, 2024 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Steve Granitz/FilmMagic)

Some fans even questioned the impact on Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s marriage, with one user asking, “What’s the point of being married if you’re being into infidelity?”

WEST HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA – OCTOBER 18: Nicole Kidman (L) and Harris Dickinson at A24’s “Babygirl” Los Angeles Special Screening at The London West Hollywood at Beverly Hills on October 18, 2024 in West Hollywood, California. (Photo by Eric Charbonneau/A24 via Getty Images)

Scheduled for a Christmas Day release in the US, Babygirl has already generated buzz for Nicole Kidman’s compelling performance. The film earned her the prestigious Best Actress award after its premiere at the Venice Film Festival.



Nicole Kidman’s bold career choices and Keith Urban’s unwavering support highlight a modern approach to partnership, where individuality and artistic freedom coexist with family priorities.

While fan reactions may be divided, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban remain focused on what matters most to them: each other and their family. As Kidman’s career continues to evolve, it’s clear that her commitment to authenticity, both on-screen and off, remains unwavering.